Hey there, This is my first time writing a post on Reddit ever but I think I should get your insight about this situation, so this past weekend I traveled to Toronto alone (m22) andI decided to hookup with this masseur/ escort, it’s my first time having sex ever that’s why I decided to pay someone for it. The guy was 32 he doesn’t have face pics on his profile but he has a great body and he is SO my type especially after we have video chatted. We decided to meet at my hotel, but before they day we hooked up I told him we go on a walk in the evening so he agreed, I was taller than him lol, he was really surprised about it and he told me I look hot in person, after we kept talking he told me he has a boyfriend (28m) and that he knows that he does escorting!!!! I was reall surprised and got jealous tbh especially after he told me that he stays with him without paying any rent, again I am jealous btw this guy has a condo in the 34th floor and two dogs anyways the day after we met at his place to show me his dogs and his bf was hiding in the room, he told me that he’s shy even tho he also Hook up with guys and also have a Grindr. We head out after to my hotel, he took of his shirt, I was really thinking if I should have sex with him or not, I kept stalling after a while he told me come in he took off my shirt I laid with him on the bed, he then put his hands under my under wear and then you know one thing lead to another, I let hem suck my cock which I shouldn’t have because l’m fxking worried rn if I cough HiV which is literally my biggest fear ever after that I let him ride me ofc with the condoms I brought nevertheless at the end I came on his month and beard which is really what I always wanted to do, after that he kept sucking me off while laying in bed and then he came. Btw he put a 50 min timer but actually he stayed like 10 or 15 min more. ( oh btw we agreed on 200 for 90 min but told him I had just 160) Anyways what makes me really angry about this whole think right hear is that he has a Grindr too and that I had to pay him $160 which is fine but what hurts the most is that I’m really really really into him.( also | know some people will say it’s just because it’s your first but just keep in mind he was the only person I sent a message to even tho there are other hot people with great bodies) I told him we can go out next time and if possibly I couldn’t pay and he told oh no I don’t have time and I work weekdays, meanwhile he’s putting in his grindr profile that he can meet
evenings!!!!! Like wtf The day after we hooked up he sent a message and said to me that I was the youngest boy who fxcked him. So back to the fear of sti’s and especially HIV, btw he told me he’s on prep and also in his Grindr profile it’s says but also it says last time he was tested was in January. Omg like I know for a fact this dude fxcked like 100 people or more since that time. Oh also after we hooked up he told me he had gonorrhea at some point and that he got an injection for it. Anyways this got me frustrated and now l’m three days after we hooked up and I really don’t feel well like I have a fatigue and chill, I don’t if because I didn’t sleep well in those three days I traveled or if it’s something else. Anyhow l’m looking to get tested after two or three weeks.
If you make it till here great, because this is the part where I will look crazy to y’all. So as I said this dude is so my type and I don’t know if it’s because of him or because of downtown Toronto which I really fxking liked so much. Im planning to move out there for like a month, the thing is I quit my job and got some savings so I thought why not. Today I found a place for rent in the same building he lives in shared with another person and I thought why not rent it, so that maybe we could meet each other every day(| promise l’m not a stalker or a creep again lol) but I know he works out every day in his gym building so maybe we could build like a friendship or something more. Again I know he has a bf but if him and his bf hookeup all the time and they are both bottom as specified in their Grindr profile maybe they will be open to a poly relationship ( you know what they say two bottoms don’t make a top lol) T had to put this out here lol sorry x) Anyways do you guys think should move out there for a month, as you know I wanted to move not only because of him but
because I wanna explore more Toronto tbh | think it’s a 50/50. Or this just a bad idea and that l’m delusional and should look to rent somewhere else??????
Thank you again if you read all of this. I really need
your insight!